Patience is a virtue most people I know sincerely struggle with. It’s something results oriented, fast-paced, get it done, “I’m filling my calendar to the max” people find hard to conceive of.
And yet it’s the place where a majority of the “good stuff” in life finds you. When you’re not pushing, hustling, efforting and “making it happen.” It’s in the nooks and crannies and spaces when you aren’t planning the next thing to do, the times when you’re not ready for it and it seems to sneak up on you as you begin to worry or be concerned and complain about what’s not happening.
To define patience well means to wait without complaining. Try it, you might be surprised by what happens.