You’ll get what you tolerate.
At a recent QCE (Quarterly Collaborative Exchange) meeting for EOS, several people referred to this concept. There are many people this quote is attributed to including Mike Ditka and Henry Cloud.
When you consider it literally, it renders you entirely responsible for how people treat you. Freedom resides in this kind of responsibility.
If you’re ready for change, look at who and what you’re complaining about. If any of the complaints are about people in your life and what they are or are not doing, ask yourself what are you tolerating? Also, consider how long it’s been happening.
Perhaps it’s time to make some changes?