I’d like to believe I’m a good listener. When I delve into learning about listening, it seems I’m always reminded of how to be better. As I’m reminded, I have plenty of room for improvement and will likely work on this for the rest of my life. I found infinite room for improvement in this model and distilled it to…
As teams get healthier, they become more willing to talk about the friction within their team and company. In the beginning, teams often hesitate to say what’s really going on, they’re indirect, cloaking their message with too many words, often diluting the real message. As leaders mature through our work together, they see their success tied directly to how effectively…
My world is filled with working with leaders daily. Everyone is busy. Everyone. Some of them forget that from time to time. Additionally, they forget “busy” is a choice. We do the things we want to do. That’s it. Saying we’re busy, using it as a shield to hide behind is shorthand for “not important enough.” You’re not fooling anyone,…
My husband goes hunting every year. It’s a tradition he’s shared with his family for the majority of his life. He looks forward to the trip and enjoys spending quality time connecting and conversing with his parents and brother-in-law in addition to quality time outdoors. Though he hasn’t shot anything since we’ve been together, it’s something he is excited for…
I met with a friend for brunch today, it was refreshing. We hadn’t seen each other in quite some time, and yet it was as if we hadn’t missed a beat. She’s a joyful and wonderful friend, reminding me of how fortunate I am to be in her presence. When we discussed some transitions happening in our worlds, we were…
“Someone with half your IQ is making 10x as you because they aren’t smart enough to doubt themselves.” – Ed Latimore “It’s not who you are that holds you back; it’s who you think you’re not.” Denis Waitley These two quotes are present for me right now based on some conversations with our team regarding our progress and limitations regarding…
As I realize I’m 33 blogs from 1000, I want to review the lessons and see how permanent or semi-permanent they’ve been. It occurred to me reviewing my lessons from every 50 blogs might inform additional learning for all of us. Let’s see what’s there. What I suspect is there’s nothing new, but I may find some highlights and great…
Growth is challenging. It can’t happen if you try to control it, predict it, or keep it small. When you try to contain what’s happening into what you can comfortably manage, you slow or stagnate growth. When you grow too fast, overwhelm can result. Simplification is the response. When you grow too slowly, you miss opportunities and can lose momentum.…
I knew we were dear friends, but this sealed the deal. Have you ever stopped by without planning to at a friend’s house? For me, this is the definition of dear friends. When you can stop over unannounced, knowing it may be a bad time or not work for whomever you’re seeing. Carla Anderson did this recently and it reminded…
Maybe is messy. It’s just like being in the middle of anything; the messy middle. When you are clear, yes and no are your answers. Both yes and no free energy, space, time, and momentum begins again. Maybe ties up your energy, creates complexity and confusion and leaves incompletions in its wake. When you’re in the maybe zone, everything stagnates…