I have a challenge to you—one that could transform your leadership as well as your personal interactions: Examine your intent when listening and reflect on its impact. As leaders, we often find ourselves in positions of authority, armed with knowledge and experience. We are quick to respond, eager to showcase our expertise, and driven to solve problems efficiently. But in…
Me too. If you’ve ever received criticism for being perceived as too assertive, “bossy” or “aggressive,” you are my people. Though it may reflect more about the person offering the feedback than your behavior, if you’ve not crossed a line, consider reframing their feedback as a remarkable opportunity to learn and progress as a leader. Rather than viewing the criticism…
In business, leadership and management are two vital roles that work hand in hand, yet they possess distinct qualities that are essential for success. Understanding the difference between the two is key to unlocking the businesses’ true potential and driving growth. Leadership is like being a guide on a hiking trail. You set the direction and inspire others to follow.…
In today’s fast-paced world, it’s all too common to feel like a juggler with too many balls in the air, each demanding your attention. Competing priorities can leave us feeling scattered, unproductive, and unsure of where to start. There is hope! By implementing a few simple strategies, especially during our remodel, I’ve figured out a few ways you can bring…
I asked, you answered. First, thank you! I appreciate everyone who emailed or texted me in answer to blog #1115. Sometimes, I need the validation to continue, though I wish that weren’t the case. I’m continuing to write daily, however may take Heather Ettinger’s suggestion of consolidating the blog to a different Unf♥<kwithable® format to create some space, add a…
Today, before I packed for travel to Dallas, we decided to spend the better part of a perfect day on our pontoon enjoying the tranquil beauty of the day enjoying a slow cruise on the water. It’s a simple pleasure, yet I was overtaken several times in the day with overwhelming feelings of peace and joy. We never tire of…
In the world of simplification, I’m considering all things right now. This includes whether or not to continue writing the blog. So, to prioritize my time, I need your help. If you are reading this, please let me know a few things with your simple responses to these questions: As I reach another phase in my world, I want to…
My world is about observation. I continually seek ways to become a better observer. This blog is one of the ways I’ve pushed myself to get better. While writing may not be my top skill, consistent practice makes me better and forces me to seek things to write about. In this way, a recent quote caught my attention: “to know…
Embarking on a home remodel is a journey of transformation. As we prepare to breathe new life into our space, we know there is another step required before we can enjoy it: clearing the clutter. It’s like preparing the garden before planting vibrant flowers – we have to remove the weeds to create room for growth and beauty. Picture our…
What are the current habits inhibiting my future progress? Often, to affect change, we consider what new habits we need, the opportunity of learning what someone else has done to become better, more thoughtful, and effective. Too often, we don’t consider what’s in the way. How our current thinking, communication, and behavior limits the opportunities and creates exactly what we…