“Most serious mistakes are not being made because of wrong answers. The truly dangerous thing is asking the wrong question.” Peter Drucker As a leader, making the time to ask the best question is critical. Often, when I’m rushed, my schedule is full, or I’m over tired I don’t ask great questions which leads to the wrong answers. Slowing down to think, rest, and…
One of the books I revisit is Keith Cunningham’s The Road Less Stupid. It usually reemerges when I’m stuck, have done something he’d refer to as stupid or as I’m pondering things not working. I always find great fodder for thinking within its covers. One of the gems is right at the beginning, talking about the five disciplines of questions. Referencing these before diving in to ponder my thoughts is…
When there is a conflict between two people, it’s always about who is “right.” What if you both are? What if you sorted the facts, found common ground, and discussed how to proceed forward together to find the best outcome for everyone, not anyone? I know, we don’t make it that simple. Yet it is that simple once we remove ourselves from the…
Seven truths to consider in your journey to designing 2022 on your terms: These hard times, this pain, these lessons – one day they’ll be your strength, your awareness, your blessings, pay attention. Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves. Watch as closely as you listen. People show you who they are every day. You’ll never look good…
There’s got to be a simpler way. That’s what 2020/2021 has taught me. Simplify everything. From a place of abundance while embracing my highest and best use everywhere in my life. As I’ve been assessing myself, my life and how I want 2022 to happen, one theme keeps smacking me in the face. K.I.S.S. – keep it simple…strategically. (It’s not stupid or sweetie…
There’s a sweet spot you can find if you’re willing to slow down and consider it. It resides at the intersection of what you love, what the world needs, what you’re great at, and what you can earn money doing. It’s called your purpose. Have you considered it? Have you checked in? Are you on track? Are you living on purpose? …
Thoughts for 2022: Don’t sit on the couch and wait for it. Go out. Make a change. Smile more. Be excited. Do new things. Throw away what you’ve been cluttering. Unfollow negative people on social media. Rest. Breathe. Relax. Play. Wake up with gratitude. Be fierce. Encourage others. Don’t gossip. Show appreciation often. Do things that challenge you. Be brave. You’ve…
What do I need to let go of? It’s a great question as you enter a new calendar year. Completions release energy. Declaring anything which no longer serves you as complete makes space for you to appreciate the gifts and lessons it offered. Things like: Overscheduling yourself. Meeting others’ expectations. Saying “yes” when you mean no. Worrying about what you…
Making meaningful changes in my routine requires intentionality. When I take my time annually to review the year, I begin with my calendar and use Tim Ferriss’ PYR to evaluate. That’s where I am in my process as I write this. I’ve made my lists and will now look into 2022 with more clarity. My first task is booking vacations with my husband. We…
There is something wonderful about snowfall. As I sit enjoying the steady drift of fragile crystals gently floating to the ground, delicately covering the bare spaces with a white dusting, I am peace full. Filled with peace in a way Spring, Summer and Fall cannot offer. Stillness inside and outside, no sound, simply peaceful and peace full. When my calendar…